Next Tuesday
dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and
reluctantly I drove there.
When I finally
walked into Carolyn's house I was welcomed by the joyful
sounds of happy children. I delightedly hugged and
greeted my grandchildren. "Forget the daffodils,
Carolyn! The road is invisible in these clouds and fog,
and there is nothing in the world except you and these
children that I want to see badly enough to drive
another inch!"
My daughter
smiled calmly and said, "We drive in this all the time,
Mother." "Well, you won't get me back on the road until
it clears, and then I'm heading for home!" I assured
her. "I was hoping you'd take me over to the garage to
pick up my car."
"How far will we
have to drive?" "Oh...just a few blocks," Carolyn said.
"But I'll drive. I'm used to this." After several
minutes, I had to ask, "Where are we going? This isn't
the way to the garage!"
"We're going to
my garage the long way," Carolyn smiled, "by way of the
daffodils." "Carolyn," I said sternly, "please turn
around." "It's all right, Mother, I promise. You will
never forgive yourself if you miss this experience."
After about
twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I
saw a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw
a hand lettered sign with an arrow that read, "Daffodil
Garden." We got out of the car, each
took a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the
path. Then, as we turned a corner, I looked up and
gasped. Before me, lay the most glorious sight.
It looked as
though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured
it over the mountain peak and it's surrounding slopes.
The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns,
great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, creamy white,
lemon yellow, salmon pink, and saffron and butter
yellow. Each different-colored variety was planted in
large groups so that it swirled and flowed like its own
river with its own unique hue. There were five acres of
flowers.
"Who did this?"
I asked Carolyn. "Just one woman," Carolyn answered.
"She lives on the property. That's her home." Carolyn
pointed to a well kept A-frame house, small and modestly
sitting in the midst of all that glory.
We walked up to
the house. On the patio, we saw a poster "Answers to
the Questions I Know You Are Asking" was the headline.
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The first
answer was a simple one.
"50,000 bulbs,"
it read.
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The second
answer was,
"One at a time,
by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and one brain."
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The third
answer was,
"Began in
1958."
For me, that
moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this
woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty years
before, had begun, one bulb at a time, to bring her
vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountaintop.
Planting one bulb at a time, year after year, this
unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she
lived. One day at a time, she had created something of
extraordinary magnificence, beauty, and inspiration.
The principle
her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest
principles of celebration. That is, learning to move
toward our goals and desires one step at a time--often
just one baby-step at time and learning to love the
doing, learning to use the accumulation of time.
When we multiply
tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily
effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent
things. We can change the world.
"It makes me sad
in a way," I admitted to Carolyn. "What might I have
accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal
thirty-five or forty years ago and had worked away at it
'one bulb at a time' through all those years? Just
think what I might have been able to achieve!"
My daughter
summed up the message of the day in her usual direct
way. "Start tomorrow" she said. She was right. It's so
pointless to think of the lost hours of yesterdays. The
way to make learning a lesson of celebration instead of
a cause for regret is to only ask, "How can I put this
to use today?"
Use the Daffodil
Principle
Stop waiting:
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Until your
car or home is paid off
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Until you
get a new car or home
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Until your
kids leave the house
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Until you go
back to school
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Until you
finish school
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Until you
clean the house
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Until you
retire
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Until summer
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Until spring
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Until winter
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Until fall
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Until you
die
There
is no better time than right now to be happy.
Wishing
you a Beautiful Daffodil Day!